Dear husband

Hallooo,

I am blessed to have known you, to be called as your wife.

I believe in destiny. Many say love marriages are always better than arranged. But I think a love marriage is also destined by God. God has made their paths cross. Its all already decided.

God has written this for us. And it's the best. I kept wondering about the help and service my parents do and would even scold them many times for going far beyond what they can, to help others.  All my mother would say is "it's for you kids, we do this. We hope God sees you good".  I dint understand this then . But now I know.  God has given me you. 

I had already decided that it's you before we met. I believed that I would meet a guy only if I'm sure of spending the rest of my life with him. I din't want to hurt someone's feelings if I wasn't ready in the first.

When I told this to my mom she asked me what if the guy isn't ready and he says no after you meet?.

I said " I would respect that definitely, but from my end I will not be telling a no to the person I meet, I will only meet him if I am ready to be married to him ." I already had a no . So I know how it feels. I din't want someone to go through that drama.

So after a 3 months of thought I have decided to meet you. And it was a yes from me. Poor you,who dint know about it. I still remember the way I was scared on the day we met . (Me out of all, scared of a person ? Hàhah can you imagine?I couldn't even wear my earings, I was shivering )  I probably was scared of rejection, scared if my choice was right. After those initial two meetings, I had the clarity I needed.

We have the best parents. They met you/me,only after we decided to get married. That's like 2 months after we met. That's the confidence they have on us. We definitely will keep up to it. 

How can you be so patient? So caring ? So loving? So irritating? So calm even if my words are hurtful ? So positive? So composed even when I say nasty things?  So peaceful? So positive? So so so lazy ?

I just remembered a day when we were passing by a road and I showed you a very high tower building and told you the price of an apartment in it.
You just caught my hand and said " you be beside me, we can afford all that "
I was very happy,v v happy, not cos you assured that you will buy me that, but that, that confidence you have, that constant feeling of you wanting to be with me, that power you inculcated in me made me proud.
Like I always say "All I need and want is OUR time,nothing else , no material,no money, no gold,no property, nothing else-just time" 💌

I still keep wondering of the days were you could have raised your voice for the things I did , but you dint.

The times were you could choose things you love , but dint and ended up with my favourite things.

Do you remember how much respect I would show while talking to you, and then you asked me to talk normally like how I would with anyone. Don't you regret this now ? Haven't i gone out of board ? Orai? Abheyo? Endi bey? Po bey ? Don't you still feel "Andi " was better ? 😂

It is really difficult to live with someone like me. Very unstable. You somehow survive it all well. 😀
And well I'm doing a great job keeping up with you too. Admit it.

That's all for now. I'd keep adding love & hatred in this all through our lives. Click more pictures ❣️

Dont disappoint me now by doing something stupid to make me regret writing all this .

Please exercise and let's get healthy together. Do you really want any one of us to be stuck with medicines and bed? 🙈

Tata,💌
Same pinch 😀